Sometimes, guys are telling you about your mistakes, because you made a mistake, it just comes out wrong in games.
I play with high school kids on the weekends, we (the older guys) get on them when they make dumb mistakes, we try to do it in a way that is not to harsh, but when the game is close or competitive, words can come out wrong.
We try to teach them while we play, its not easy. Young people do not take critisizm well, trust me, I can remember when I was a teen and the older guys told me stuff, I always took it as an insult until an older college dude took me to the side.
Coming from this dude, I could accept the critisizm, he was older than me and was a really great player, it helped that he didnt talk down to me.
Not trying to preach to you, I am just saying....
