Re: intimidation
This makes no sense.
Basically you say you rule when you play strangers but in practice against your own team mates you suck. Sorry, that means that you aren't as good as you think. Maybe your team is stronger than others and your performance in competitive games is a reflection of how well your teams moves, screens, shoots and passes etc. Perhaps, when there is not one to get you the ball you have difficulty keeping possession and making your own plays out of nothing. Maybe your team players are as good or even better than you. The most important thing is to be honest where your weaknesses lie and do something about it. No point lying to your self and seeking group hugs and validation from others, because at the end of the day that does not make a great player/athlete. Get over it and find out from your coach what the real problem is. If he cannot diagnose it and just says you are the best (kinda like parents would blindly say to their own child), get someone else to tell it to you straight - get a 2nd opinion preferably from someone with a trained eye. Failing that, how's this - ask one of your team mates why you suck (individually though, otherwise you are asking for a mass hating contest). This may sound harsh and be something you don't want to hear, but it is IMO the best thing someone can say to you.
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